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Can a Divorce Be Amicable?
By Brenda London • July 15, 2026Rethinking What It Means to End a Marriage with Respect When people think about divorce, they often imagine conflict, long court battles, tense negotiations, financial upheaval and emotional strain that spills into every corner of life. Just read Stranger, by Belle Burden, and the possible realities of an adversarial divorce battle become mind numbing. But no… -
How Collaborative Divorce Can Make Better Co-Parents
By Brenda London • May 20, 2026When you have children, the divorce process you choose will shape your family’s future for years to come. Collaborative Divorce helps you to create healthier co-parenting habits, reduce conflict, and keep your children’s well-being at the center of every decision. By working together outside of court, you can build a parenting plan that fits your… -
Divorce: How Much Will It Cost?
By Stephanie Alvarez • March 27, 2026Most people want to know exactly how much a divorce will cost? The honest answer is usually that “it depends.” The cost of your divorce is usually driven by the complexity of your case, the level of conflict with your spouse, and the divorce process that you choose. By focusing on cooperation and out-of-court solutions,… -
6 Tips for Keeping Your Divorce Private in the Digital Age
By Wendy Aikin • March 6, 2026Divorce is personal, and you have more control over your privacy during the divorce than you may think. Choosing the right legal process, managing your digital footprint, and being intentional about what you share will protect your dignity and your family during this transition. Divorce is one of the most personal experiences you will go… -
Divorce: How to Tell Your Children – A Guide for Parents
By Brenda London • January 13, 2026Telling your children that you are getting a divorce is one of the hardest conversations you will have as a parent. When you plan for the conversation, present a united front, and focus on reassurance and stability so that you can help your children feel safe and supported during a major change in their lives…. -
Preserving Relationships After Divorce—Why It Matters
By Stephanie Alvarez • January 6, 2026When you go through a divorce, it is easy to want space or even distance from your former spouse. But if you have children or share responsibilities of any kind, preserving a respectful relationship will help your family thrive. By communicating effectively, choosing less adversarial processes, and prioritizing your children’s needs, you create a healthier… -
Handling the Holidays During Divorce
By Wendy Aikin • October 28, 2025The holidays can be tough when going through a divorce, but intentional planning, open communication, and a focus on your children’s needs will make them smoother. The Collaborative Divorce process helps parents to work as a team to reduce conflict that can spoil the holidays for everyone, avoid a gift-buying competition, and create positive new… -
4 Tips for Communicating with Your Spouse During Divorce
By Stephanie Alvarez • September 18, 2025Communicating with your spouse well during a divorce can reduce conflict, lower legal costs, and help you both move forward more peacefully. Stay calm, avoid blame, keep children out of earshot, and focus on the future. If emotions rise, step back or consider working with a therapist or communication coach. In Collaborative Divorce, the neutral… -
Why Gray Divorce Takes So Much Courage
By Brenda London • July 29, 2025Gray divorce, the end of a long-term marriage, is becoming more common as people prioritize emotional fulfillment and well-being versus staying in unfulfilling relationships. Often initiated by women, these divorces are usually the result of years of emotional distance rather than sudden conflict. Because they impact not just the couple but the entire family, Collaborative… -
Ten questions to ask before choosing a family lawyer
By Brenda London • May 5, 2020Selecting a lawyer to help you with your divorce is perhaps the most important decision you’ll make in the process of getting divorced. What are the questions to ask before choosing a family lawyer. A divorce isn’t just ending a marriage — it’s a legal process creating a document impacting your finances and your children… -
Reimagining Divorce: The Pro Se Divorce Mediation
By Brenda London • January 29, 2020Divorce is a big decision. Deciding how to divorce is the next biggest decision that can impact your future and your family’s future forever. Imagine, a divorce without lawyers. Pro se divorce mediation may be exactly what you’ve been looking for. “Pro” what did you say? “Pro se” is a Latin term meaning “In one’s… -
Separation Agreement Lawyer in Orlando, Florida
By Brenda London • October 10, 2019If you are getting separated in Orlando, Florida you may want to speak to the family lawyer at The Aikin Family Law Group today. For many married couples, a separation agreement is the first step they take before getting divorced. However, separation doesn’t confer the same legal benefits that divorce provides. For example, you could…
